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Your Free Report #2:
"How to Cure 3 Male Obstacles to Oral Sex"
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"How to Cure 3 Male Obstacles to Oral Sex"
Hi again,
Welcome to Report #2 of your free oral love Secrets and Tips! After reading the first Report, we hope that you are realizing more and more that you deserve this kind of loving in your life.
So, here are the obstacles, and some ways to deal with them (there are of course more in our full Women's Guide).
==> Ecstatic Oral Love: A Women's Guide to Receiving
3 Male Obstacles, And How to Resolve Them:
1. Cultural Upbringing
Women are often brought up feeling it is their role to give to and support the man. So men are often also brought up thinking that it is their role to receive. Many men want or expect oral sex, thinking that they don't need to give it in return.
How to Deal with Cultural Upbringing
a. Create your own new "mutual oral loving" culture - have books around about oral sex both ways. Perhaps have some art on your wall. Get comfortable with your knowledge of cunnilingus - read some books on Taoist or Tantric practices. Make it a normal and wonderful part of your life.
b. Offer him a better deal. If most men think that they are going to get a better sex life and relationship, they will open up to exploring. Use the "Let's Learn Together" approach we talked about in the Guide. |
2. Dealing With Aroma and Taste Issues
We have found several ways to deal with this:
a. Make sure you clean yourself well - generally, no douching is necessary. If you feel a particular need, use only water or natural ingredients, guided by a medical practitioner if you can, and definitely no commercial, chemical-laden soaps or douche formulas. We suggest that you use an all-natural, organic soap on the outside and inside, unless you have a sensitivity inside. If you do, wash, rub and splash well with just warm water inside your lips and vaginal opening. Remember that the vagina cleans itself naturally - that's a main purpose for a women's juices.
b. Some men absolutely love the taste of a woman, and for others it can be an acquired taste. Some men need to start slowly.
c. Study foreplay and hand techniques with him. If he spends 10 to 20 minutes massaging you, kissing your mouth and neck and shoulders and breasts and legs, lightly caressing your inner thighs, and then he uses really good hand technique on your vagina and clitoris, he can learn to bring you to amazing, ecstatic orgasms that way, or can then bring you to orgasm with a few minutes there with his lips and tongue.
d. He can release some juices from his mouth as he's licking you - this "blends" the flavors and makes quite a difference.
e. Educate him about the health, vitality and if this fits for you, spiritual benefits of a man taking in a woman's sacred juices. We provide more about this in the book.
f. You can add some flavors - make sure that they are healthy for you! We recommend some very healthy and natural products in our Women's Guide, and you can also find them at some health food stores and organic-oriented massage or sensuality stores.
g. If you are not in a monogamous relationship, we recommend that you use protection such as the Glyde "Sheer" sheets. With those, there is no concern about taste at all because there will be no skin to skin contact. |
3. Men's Fear of Not Being Good Enough
The opposite of the male desire to succeed and be competent is the fear of not being good enough. If men are asked to do something they don't know how to do, they often would rather just not do it rather than be embarrassed.
Start by Acknowledging What He's Good At
You'll want to acknowledge and appreciate your partner for what he already does well, and then build on that. Is he a good kisser? Is he good at giving you massage? Do you love how he caresses your breasts? Is he wild and exciting and passionate and you want to add some gentleness in?
Begin with a statement or two about what he already does well that you appreciate. Be sincere. This will help to soften his fear or avoidance.
Give Him a Goal and a Way to Get There
Men are good at achieving goals as long as they know what they are and that there is a reasonable way to get there. In the Women's Guide we'll give you specific words and phrases to use to help with this. (We can't give away all of our secrets!).
We hope that this information is useful for you. Remember that your natural healthy scent, taste and appearance are wonderful. Nature has designed your juices and aroma to attract and pleasure the perfect man for you.
See you in the next Report, where we talk about the chocolate syrup and honey myths and what to do about them. Click Here for Report #3, The Chocolate Syrup/Honey Myth Exposed.
We hope you're enjoying this learning experience, and are beginning to see that bringing ecstatic oral love into your life is totally possible!
Eric and Amanda
==> Ecstatic Oral Love: A Women's Guide to Receiving
TO READ THE OTHER FREE REPORTS, CLICK BELOW:
Report #1: It Starts in Your Mind and Heart
Report #2: How to Cure 3 Male Obstacles to Oral Sex
Report #3: The Chocolate Syrup/Honey Myth Exposed
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